Abigail Thorn

 If I were trans and could ”pass” as I gather trans people say, I would keep my head down, not say anything and allow everyone to assume that I was my adopted gender. I’m sure there are many people out there who do exactly that. 


There are others who proudly claim the label “trans”, tell the world all about it, and share their experience. I admire people like that very much. There is no doubt that doing so attracts what one might call “unwanted attention” which will include insults and threats. 


I am thinking about people like Abigail Thorn, the philosophy educator and YouTuber, who could certainly pass, but chooses not to. I recently watched a video interview with her. I found it very emotional. She made it clear that she had no choice, that she simply couldn’t continue to pretend; that the process was emotionally draining; and that now she is completely at peace with herself. 


It’s people like her who will eventually persuade the vast majority of people, cis people whose gender is so much a  comfortable part of themselves that they never think about it, that trans people are, like gay people, just another part of the great human tapestry. 

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